Column: The story of friends, strangers and a baseball
by Dick Yarbrough
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This is a story about heroes — good people doing good things. The cast of characters in this performance shares one thing in common: They are strangers to one another. They will meet for the first time via this column. That is what makes this such a good story.
Hero Number One: Rob Neely, a longtime friend, discovered recently that he would require serious surgery. Fortunately, the procedure seems to have been successful but his recuperation will be lengthy.
Robbie (as he was known back then) and I were classmates at Russell High School in East Point. Robbie Neely was the epitome of the scholar-athlete: a member of the National Honor Society and a star on the Wildcats baseball team.
His prowess as an all-star infielder landed him a spot on the Georgia Tech baseball team, where he was part of the Southeastern Conference championship. (This was in the days prior to the Atlantic Coast Conference.) Following college, he became the owner of a successful heating and air-conditioning company in the Atlanta area with a loving family and a host of friends, including me.
Then life decided to take a swing at Rob Neely. As with everything else he does, he faced this difficult moment armed with a strong faith and quiet dignity. There was little that I or anyone else could do but support him through the crisis.
Enter Hero Number Two: Wayne Hogan is the assistant athletic director at Georgia Tech. A few years back, I took one of my snarky shots at Tech after some genius with too much time on her hands decided the way to boost attendance at Bobby Dodd Stadium was not necessarily by winning football games but with halftime rap concerts.
That was too funny to ignore, and I gleefully depicted a bunch of old white guys in tweed coats watching Huff n’ Puff sling his bling and wondering if their T-Square world was coming to an end. A large number of Tech fans took umbrage with me (go figure), but Mr. Hogan wrote and complimented me on my humor, if not my subject. That is the way to deal with smart-aleck columnists — disarm them with kindness.
When I learned of Rob Neely’s situation, I contacted Mr. Hogan and asked if it would be possible to get a baseball signed by the Georgia Tech baseball team, not realizing they were in the midst of the ACC tournament in Charlotte and would be headed to Nashville to compete for a berth in the College World Series. It wasn’t like he didn’t have anything else to do. However, he made the request a priority and got the baseball, signed by coach Danny Hall and all the players.
Just one problem: Wayne Hogan had to be in Nashville immediately and couldn’t get the ball to me. He mentioned his travels would take him through Marietta en route to Nashville. Was there any place there he could drop off the ball?
Enter Hero Number Three: Donna Krueger runs a successful art gallery in Marietta. I made a semi-panicked call to Krueger trying in 30 seconds or less to explain what was going on. Would it be possible for a nice man who was in a big hurry to drop off a baseball at her gallery? After all, what is an art gallery without a baseball or two? Happily, she said “yes,” and the transfer was made.
A couple of days later, I was able to pick up the baseball — along with a Georgia Tech baseball cap and shirt — and deliver it to Rob prior to his surgery. The gift was — pardon the pun — a home run. The fact that it came from an unrepentant Georgia Bulldog made it even more special, I suspect.
As the curtain comes down on our story, Rob Neely is on the slow road to recovery. Wayne Hogan is getting ready for the upcoming Yellow Jacket football season — minus Huff ‘n Puff and his bling. Donna Krueger continues to promote and purvey fine art at dk Galleries in Marietta. The Georgia Tech baseball team didn’t make it to the College World Series this year but they are collective heroes for the boost they gave one of their own when he needed it most.
My sincerest appreciation to a group of people who didn’t know each other until today and now understand the part they played in the story of good people doing good things. They are strangers no more.

You can reach Dick Yarbrough at yarb2400@bellsouth.net or P.O. Box 725373, Atlanta, Ga. 31139.
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Column: Gifts, Google and fools
by Lauretta Hannon
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Q: What are your thoughts about the wisdom of lending money to family members or friends for “a good cause,” for “a reasonable amount of time,” if I can manage it? I would need the loan to be re-paid since I’m not wealthy. I would also need to scale back on my personal expenses while my funds are “on loan.” I’m concerned about my inability to enforce re-payment and the possible damage to our relationship, as well as concerned about creating a pattern for future loan requests, especially if a loan is repaid as agreed. How can I say “no” when I can say “yes,” and what boundaries can I set “after the fact?”
A: Don’t do it! You can’t afford it if the loan would require such sacrifice, and you already know the kinds of additional dilemmas this may create. Here’s the solution: Give a gift instead of a loan. The size of the gift should be the amount you’re comfortable with giving. This approach will keep you out of the murky and treacherous waters of loaning to friends and family. My policy is to give a gift but never a loan.
Your gift allows you to say “yes” without putting you in the poor house or setting you up for future unpleasantness. Also consider non-financial ways you can contribute to the “good cause” behind the fund request.

Q: I recently learned of the whereabouts of someone from a dark part of my past. Yes, trouble is spelled G-O-O-G-L-E. If the statute of limitations hadn’t run out, I’d be tempted to prosecute. Should I send the sorry dog a letter and demand accountability, or should I let sleeping rat dogs lay?
A: Yes, write him a missive so scorching that it nearly burns your hand to touch it. Tell him everything you’d like for him to hear. Lower the boom, empty both barrels and unleash your full fury. Spare nothing. And don’t stop until you are spent. Now, read very closely. This next part is critical.
Go outside, get a match and set the letter ablaze. Believe that by doing this you are accomplishing three things: you have lightened your load by pouring out your feelings and thoughts; you have “sent” the message to the heavens ,and the heavens will handle it; and you have incinerated all the bad stuff associated with the scoundrel. Then go pour up a nice merlot (or ginger ale if you’re Baptist), and toast your new liberation.

Q: I am a married 66-year-old male. My backyard neighbor (a single mom) has two daughters, ages 17 and 13. The 13-year-old has an IQ of 70 and cannot be left on her own because she cannot make responsible decisions. To help the mom I occasionally take the 13-year-old — a very sweet young lady — for parts of or a whole day. The 17-year-old has a summer job and works during the day. A friend of mine said that I need to be careful because teenage girls will accuse you of inappropriate acts if you cross them. I say this will not happen with this girl. The mom is perfectly comfortable with me caring for her child.
A: Continue your kind and generous support of this family. Obviously the mom trusts and needs you. That trumps the negative comments of a friend who is removed from the situation. Don’t you dare let him derail you from helping these folks. So many wonderful works have been squashed by the words of one loser. Don’t be fooled by a fool.

Lauretta Hannon, a resident of Powder Springs, is the bestselling author of “The Cracker Queen — A Memoir of a Jagged, Joyful Life” and a keynote speaker. Southern Living has named her “the funniest woman in Georgia.” See more at www.thecrackerqueen.com.

Send your questions to notyourgrannysadvice@gmail.com.

Join Lauretta Hannon Saturday at the Dog River Branch Library in Douglasville for a free book talk at 10:30 a.m.
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CWPR Restaurant Week starts Saturday
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In a news release, Caren West PR, an Atlanta-based public relations and graphic design firm, announced it will host its second CWPR Restaurant Week Saturday through June 29.
The event will feature eight days of lunch and dinner deals ranging from $15 to $35 at many of Atlanta’s top dining and social destinations.
From modern Italian cuisine and high-end steaks to smoky Southern barbecue, upscale pub grub and sushi, Atlantans are invited to dig into three-course, prix fixe menus and enjoy special offerings at 19 establishments throughout the city, including Genki Noodles and Sushi, which has locations in Buckhead, Sandy Springs and Virginia-Highland.
Other participating restaurants are: Inman Park’s The Albert, west Midtown’s Bone Lick BBQ, Midtown’s Cucina Asellina, Cypress Street Pint and Plate and STK; Virginia-Highland’s D.B.A. Barbecue and Diesel Filling Station; the Old Fourth Ward’s The Drafting Table, Pizzeria Vesuvius and P’cheen; Decatur’s Eddie’s Attic; downtown Atlanta’s Park Bar and Sidebar and The Real Chow Baby Ponce, which has locations in Poncey-Highland, west Midtown and the Mall of Georgia in Gwinnett County.
“When we founded Caren West PR almost eight years ago, we made a promise to go above and beyond to create opportunities that showcase, elevate and support our community and all of the wonderful people and businesses that make it so special,” said Caren West, president of Caren West PR. “Our team is honored to work with so many fantastic restaurants and created CWPR Restaurant Week last year to both celebrate our restaurant partners and show off what we love about each unique brand.”
For more information and the full list of participating restaurants and their menus, visit www.carenwestpr.com.
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Guest column: How graffiti hurts society
by Larry Jacobs
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What is graffiti? The Wikipedia definition is writings or drawings that have been scribbled, scratched or sprayed illicitly on a wall or other surface in a public place. Graffiti ranges from simple written words to elaborate wall paintings.
Who does the graffiti? It is mostly linked to gangs, but anybody can and does do it. Graffiti criminals believe their actions do not harm anyone.
How does graffiti hurt society? Graffiti hurts everyone — homeowners, communities, businesses, schools and you. Those who practice it risk personal injury, violence and arrest.
“Graffiti contributes to lost revenue associated with reduced ridership on transit systems, reduced retail sales and declines in property value. In addition, graffiti generates the perception of blight and heightens fear of gang activity,” reports the U.S. Department of Justice.
The appearance of graffiti is often perceived by residents and passersby as a sign that a downward spiral has begun, even though this may not be true.
How much does it cost to clean up? Although the cost of graffiti vandalism in the U.S. has yet to be definitively documented, for many communities, private property owners and public agencies, the cost is rising each year.
Why do we need to clean up graffiti? It’s the Broken Window Theory. The Broken Window Theory is based on the notion that signs of incivility, like broken windows, signify that nobody cares, which leads to greater fear of crime and a reduction of community effectiveness. This can lead to more serious crimes and greater signs of incivility, repeating the cycle into a potential spiral of decay.
Who do you contact if you see graffiti in Sandy Springs? Me! Send me an email. Please give me as much information as possible (location, how long has it been there and pictures if possible). We have a little group that communicates rather well and the idea is to get rid of any graffiti as soon as possible.
The group consists of Sandy Springs Public Works (they handle any graffiti in public areas), Sandy Springs Code Enforcement (they handle any graffiti on private property), and lastly, the SSPD (we track and keep records of the graffiti and then try to determine if it is gang-related, the gang affiliation and their movements. If it’s not a gang, we do our best to determine who is doing it. Whoever is doing it will be arrested).
Thanks to www.graffitihurts.org and http://cops.usdoj.gov/html/dispatch/January_2009/nugget.htm for some of the information in this article.
Freebie – Cracked Windshield Law in Georgia states: O.C.G.A. § 40-8-73 (e)
“No motor vehicle shall be operated with a windshield or rear window having a starburst or spider webbing effect greater than 3 inches by 3 inches.”
It is a misdemeanor with a maximum penalty of one year in jail and a $1,000 fine.

Officer Larry Jacobs is the crime prevention officer for the Sandy Springs Police Department. He can be reached directly at ljacobs@sandyspringsga.gov.
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Column: The story of friends, strangers and a baseball
by Dick Yarbrough
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Jun 20, 2013 | 322 views | 0 0 comments | 5 5 recommendations | email to a friend | print
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This is a story about heroes — good people doing good things. The cast of characters in this performance shares one thing in common: They are strangers to one another. They will meet for the first time via this column. That is what makes this such a good story.
Hero Number One: Rob Neely, a longtime friend, discovered recently that he would require serious surgery. Fortunately, the procedure seems to have been successful but his recuperation will be lengthy.
Robbie (as he was known back then) and I were classmates at Russell High School in East Point. Robbie Neely was the epitome of the scholar-athlete: a member of the National Honor Society and a star on the Wildcats baseball team.
His prowess as an all-star infielder landed him a spot on the Georgia Tech baseball team, where he was part of the Southeastern Conference championship. (This was in the days prior to the Atlantic Coast Conference.) Following college, he became the owner of a successful heating and air-conditioning company in the Atlanta area with a loving family and a host of friends, including me.
Then life decided to take a swing at Rob Neely. As with everything else he does, he faced this difficult moment armed with a strong faith and quiet dignity. There was little that I or anyone else could do but support him through the crisis.
Enter Hero Number Two: Wayne Hogan is the assistant athletic director at Georgia Tech. A few years back, I took one of my snarky shots at Tech after some genius with too much time on her hands decided the way to boost attendance at Bobby Dodd Stadium was not necessarily by winning football games but with halftime rap concerts.
That was too funny to ignore, and I gleefully depicted a bunch of old white guys in tweed coats watching Huff n’ Puff sling his bling and wondering if their T-Square world was coming to an end. A large number of Tech fans took umbrage with me (go figure), but Mr. Hogan wrote and complimented me on my humor, if not my subject. That is the way to deal with smart-aleck columnists — disarm them with kindness.
When I learned of Rob Neely’s situation, I contacted Mr. Hogan and asked if it would be possible to get a baseball signed by the Georgia Tech baseball team, not realizing they were in the midst of the ACC tournament in Charlotte and would be headed to Nashville to compete for a berth in the College World Series. It wasn’t like he didn’t have anything else to do. However, he made the request a priority and got the baseball, signed by coach Danny Hall and all the players.
Just one problem: Wayne Hogan had to be in Nashville immediately and couldn’t get the ball to me. He mentioned his travels would take him through Marietta en route to Nashville. Was there any place there he could drop off the ball?
Enter Hero Number Three: Donna Krueger runs a successful art gallery in Marietta. I made a semi-panicked call to Krueger trying in 30 seconds or less to explain what was going on. Would it be possible for a nice man who was in a big hurry to drop off a baseball at her gallery? After all, what is an art gallery without a baseball or two? Happily, she said “yes,” and the transfer was made.
A couple of days later, I was able to pick up the baseball — along with a Georgia Tech baseball cap and shirt — and deliver it to Rob prior to his surgery. The gift was — pardon the pun — a home run. The fact that it came from an unrepentant Georgia Bulldog made it even more special, I suspect.
As the curtain comes down on our story, Rob Neely is on the slow road to recovery. Wayne Hogan is getting ready for the upcoming Yellow Jacket football season — minus Huff ‘n Puff and his bling. Donna Krueger continues to promote and purvey fine art at dk Galleries in Marietta. The Georgia Tech baseball team didn’t make it to the College World Series this year but they are collective heroes for the boost they gave one of their own when he needed it most.
My sincerest appreciation to a group of people who didn’t know each other until today and now understand the part they played in the story of good people doing good things. They are strangers no more.

You can reach Dick Yarbrough at yarb2400@bellsouth.net or P.O. Box 725373, Atlanta, Ga. 31139.
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Column: Gifts, Google and fools
by Lauretta Hannon
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Q: What are your thoughts about the wisdom of lending money to family members or friends for “a good cause,” for “a reasonable amount of time,” if I can manage it? I would need the loan to be re-paid since I’m not wealthy. I would also need to scale back on my personal expenses while my funds are “on loan.” I’m concerned about my inability to enforce re-payment and the possible damage to our relationship, as well as concerned about creating a pattern for future loan requests, especially if a loan is repaid as agreed. How can I say “no” when I can say “yes,” and what boundaries can I set “after the fact?”
A: Don’t do it! You can’t afford it if the loan would require such sacrifice, and you already know the kinds of additional dilemmas this may create. Here’s the solution: Give a gift instead of a loan. The size of the gift should be the amount you’re comfortable with giving. This approach will keep you out of the murky and treacherous waters of loaning to friends and family. My policy is to give a gift but never a loan.
Your gift allows you to say “yes” without putting you in the poor house or setting you up for future unpleasantness. Also consider non-financial ways you can contribute to the “good cause” behind the fund request.

Q: I recently learned of the whereabouts of someone from a dark part of my past. Yes, trouble is spelled G-O-O-G-L-E. If the statute of limitations hadn’t run out, I’d be tempted to prosecute. Should I send the sorry dog a letter and demand accountability, or should I let sleeping rat dogs lay?
A: Yes, write him a missive so scorching that it nearly burns your hand to touch it. Tell him everything you’d like for him to hear. Lower the boom, empty both barrels and unleash your full fury. Spare nothing. And don’t stop until you are spent. Now, read very closely. This next part is critical.
Go outside, get a match and set the letter ablaze. Believe that by doing this you are accomplishing three things: you have lightened your load by pouring out your feelings and thoughts; you have “sent” the message to the heavens ,and the heavens will handle it; and you have incinerated all the bad stuff associated with the scoundrel. Then go pour up a nice merlot (or ginger ale if you’re Baptist), and toast your new liberation.

Q: I am a married 66-year-old male. My backyard neighbor (a single mom) has two daughters, ages 17 and 13. The 13-year-old has an IQ of 70 and cannot be left on her own because she cannot make responsible decisions. To help the mom I occasionally take the 13-year-old — a very sweet young lady — for parts of or a whole day. The 17-year-old has a summer job and works during the day. A friend of mine said that I need to be careful because teenage girls will accuse you of inappropriate acts if you cross them. I say this will not happen with this girl. The mom is perfectly comfortable with me caring for her child.
A: Continue your kind and generous support of this family. Obviously the mom trusts and needs you. That trumps the negative comments of a friend who is removed from the situation. Don’t you dare let him derail you from helping these folks. So many wonderful works have been squashed by the words of one loser. Don’t be fooled by a fool.

Lauretta Hannon, a resident of Powder Springs, is the bestselling author of “The Cracker Queen — A Memoir of a Jagged, Joyful Life” and a keynote speaker. Southern Living has named her “the funniest woman in Georgia.” See more at www.thecrackerqueen.com.

Send your questions to notyourgrannysadvice@gmail.com.

Join Lauretta Hannon Saturday at the Dog River Branch Library in Douglasville for a free book talk at 10:30 a.m.
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CWPR Restaurant Week starts Saturday
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Jun 20, 2013 | 47 views | 0 0 comments | 6 6 recommendations | email to a friend | print
In a news release, Caren West PR, an Atlanta-based public relations and graphic design firm, announced it will host its second CWPR Restaurant Week Saturday through June 29.
The event will feature eight days of lunch and dinner deals ranging from $15 to $35 at many of Atlanta’s top dining and social destinations.
From modern Italian cuisine and high-end steaks to smoky Southern barbecue, upscale pub grub and sushi, Atlantans are invited to dig into three-course, prix fixe menus and enjoy special offerings at 19 establishments throughout the city, including Genki Noodles and Sushi, which has locations in Buckhead, Sandy Springs and Virginia-Highland.
Other participating restaurants are: Inman Park’s The Albert, west Midtown’s Bone Lick BBQ, Midtown’s Cucina Asellina, Cypress Street Pint and Plate and STK; Virginia-Highland’s D.B.A. Barbecue and Diesel Filling Station; the Old Fourth Ward’s The Drafting Table, Pizzeria Vesuvius and P’cheen; Decatur’s Eddie’s Attic; downtown Atlanta’s Park Bar and Sidebar and The Real Chow Baby Ponce, which has locations in Poncey-Highland, west Midtown and the Mall of Georgia in Gwinnett County.
“When we founded Caren West PR almost eight years ago, we made a promise to go above and beyond to create opportunities that showcase, elevate and support our community and all of the wonderful people and businesses that make it so special,” said Caren West, president of Caren West PR. “Our team is honored to work with so many fantastic restaurants and created CWPR Restaurant Week last year to both celebrate our restaurant partners and show off what we love about each unique brand.”
For more information and the full list of participating restaurants and their menus, visit www.carenwestpr.com.
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Guest column: How graffiti hurts society
by Larry Jacobs
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What is graffiti? The Wikipedia definition is writings or drawings that have been scribbled, scratched or sprayed illicitly on a wall or other surface in a public place. Graffiti ranges from simple written words to elaborate wall paintings.
Who does the graffiti? It is mostly linked to gangs, but anybody can and does do it. Graffiti criminals believe their actions do not harm anyone.
How does graffiti hurt society? Graffiti hurts everyone — homeowners, communities, businesses, schools and you. Those who practice it risk personal injury, violence and arrest.
“Graffiti contributes to lost revenue associated with reduced ridership on transit systems, reduced retail sales and declines in property value. In addition, graffiti generates the perception of blight and heightens fear of gang activity,” reports the U.S. Department of Justice.
The appearance of graffiti is often perceived by residents and passersby as a sign that a downward spiral has begun, even though this may not be true.
How much does it cost to clean up? Although the cost of graffiti vandalism in the U.S. has yet to be definitively documented, for many communities, private property owners and public agencies, the cost is rising each year.
Why do we need to clean up graffiti? It’s the Broken Window Theory. The Broken Window Theory is based on the notion that signs of incivility, like broken windows, signify that nobody cares, which leads to greater fear of crime and a reduction of community effectiveness. This can lead to more serious crimes and greater signs of incivility, repeating the cycle into a potential spiral of decay.
Who do you contact if you see graffiti in Sandy Springs? Me! Send me an email. Please give me as much information as possible (location, how long has it been there and pictures if possible). We have a little group that communicates rather well and the idea is to get rid of any graffiti as soon as possible.
The group consists of Sandy Springs Public Works (they handle any graffiti in public areas), Sandy Springs Code Enforcement (they handle any graffiti on private property), and lastly, the SSPD (we track and keep records of the graffiti and then try to determine if it is gang-related, the gang affiliation and their movements. If it’s not a gang, we do our best to determine who is doing it. Whoever is doing it will be arrested).
Thanks to www.graffitihurts.org and http://cops.usdoj.gov/html/dispatch/January_2009/nugget.htm for some of the information in this article.
Freebie – Cracked Windshield Law in Georgia states: O.C.G.A. § 40-8-73 (e)
“No motor vehicle shall be operated with a windshield or rear window having a starburst or spider webbing effect greater than 3 inches by 3 inches.”
It is a misdemeanor with a maximum penalty of one year in jail and a $1,000 fine.

Officer Larry Jacobs is the crime prevention officer for the Sandy Springs Police Department. He can be reached directly at ljacobs@sandyspringsga.gov.
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